Unique Challenges and Misconceptions
Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) manifests at similar or even higher rates within LGBTQ+ relationships as it does in heterosexual ones. However, distinct challenges within the LGBTQ+ community—such as a deep-seated mistrust of law enforcement, the fear of being outed against one’s will, and widespread misconceptions about the nature of IPV—can make these situations even more complex. As a result, both victims and support systems, including law enforcement, might struggle to recognize the signs of an abusive relationship.
The Importance of Boundaries in Healing
Having clear boundaries is an essential aspect of healing from an unhealthy or violent relationship. By establishing and protecting these boundaries, survivors reclaim a sense of agency and control over their lives, thereby protecting themselves against further harm. These boundaries act as a compass, guiding survivors towards healthier relationships and environments where their safety and well-being are centered. Setting boundaries is also crucial in rebuilding trust in oneself and in others, as survivors learn to prioritize their needs and recognize early warning signs of potential harm. Ultimately, embracing boundaries empowers survivors to foster a sense of safety, autonomy, and self-worth as they navigate their journey of healing and recovery from the trauma of interpersonal violence.
Meet Quinci Rockette: Our Intimate Partner Violence Crisis Counselor
We are proud to introduce Quinci Rockette, an exceptionally skilled, empathetic, and insightful Intimate Partner Violence counselor on our team. Quinci offers one-on-one consultations to discuss the pillars of healthy relationships, assists individuals in establishing personal boundaries, devises exit strategies for those in need, and aids in navigating the legalities with police or court filings. Additionally, she facilitates support groups for survivors of intimate partner violence.
The Power of Connection: LGBTQ+ IPV Survivors Group
Our LGBTQ+ Intimate Partner Violence Survivors group, led by Quinci each month, is a testament to the resilience and courage of survivors. This group offers a safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals aged 18 and older who have experienced IPV to share their stories and challenges. It’s a place to celebrate diversity and strength, offering survivors the opportunity to connect, share experiences, and learn from one another. The focus is on moving forward, with a keen emphasis on safety and fostering healthy relationships.
The meetings are held virtually on the third Monday of every month from 6 to 7:30 PM. If you or someone you know could benefit from this group, please reach out to Quinci Rockette (she/her) at qrockette@lgbtlifecenter.org for more information.
You can learn more about IPV, how we can help, and get in touch with us on our website at lgbtlifecenter.org/ipv.
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